Member since 2019 · 1 posts · last active 17 Jun 2026
Hayes Murphy is an active member of the EzHookups community, contributing to 1 discussions since 2019. Their posts concentrate on free dating sites, where they share first-hand experience of what free dating platforms actually deliver rather than what the marketing pages claim.
They post mainly about the gap between what a platform advertises and what the inbox does on day three, and they will say plainly when something did not work for them.
Taken together, Hayes Murphy's posts make the same underlying argument in a dozen different ways: judge a dating platform on whether you can hold a conversation on it, not on how many profiles it claims. Match counts are marketing; reply rates are the product. That distinction runs through almost everything they have written here.
What makes Hayes Murphy worth following is a refusal to give a single answer where the honest one is 'it depends on your city'.
If you are researching the same ground, the threads below will be faster than any guide, disagreements included — one member's dead local pool is another's decent week.
Profiles like this one exist so the threads are not anonymous. You can see what someone has posted before deciding how much weight to give their opinion on a platform.