Are free online friendship sites good for making platonic friends?

Started by Ethan Parker30 Mar 2026Category: Free Dating Sites8 repliesfree-dating-sitesfree-dating
Ethan Parker avatar
Joined: Sep 2019 Messages: 174
#1

I'm curious about one thing — Are free online friendship sites good for making platonic friends?

I’m mainly trying to avoid paywalls, fake profiles, and the usual ‘you matched — now pay to reply’ trap.

I’m fine with basic ads, but I’m not interested in anything that pushes shady subscriptions or weird payment screens.

Mark Murphy avatar
Joined: May 2025 Messages: 390
#2

If free online friendship sites is what you're weighing up, look for filters that hold up outside the big cities before you look at the price. The thing that decided free online friendship sites for me was how fast you filter and block — everything else was noise. When I’m bored of the same paywalls, I’ll try a smaller option like Datescout and keep my expectations realistic. If free online friendship sites is what you're weighing up, look for block and report tools that actually work before you look at the price.

On free online friendship sites, I gave Datebie dating a fortnight. It's quieter, though the people who are on it tend to reply. Fine as an addition; poor as a sole account, particularly if you're outside a major metro.

Nicole Mitchell avatar
Joined: Jul 2021 Messages: 1634
#3

Where free online friendship sites tends to come apart is when read receipts and filters get held back as bait. If free online friendship sites is what you're weighing up, look for control over who can see or message you before you look at the price. The thing that decided free online friendship sites for me was the size of the local pool — everything else was noise. Plenty of Fish, Tinder, Facebook Dating, Bumble. If free online friendship sites is what you're weighing up, look for location matching that isn't wildly optimistic before you look at the price.

Hailey Collins avatar
Joined: May 2019 Messages: 129
#4

If free online friendship sites is what you're weighing up, look for messaging you can use without a card on file before you look at the price. With free online friendship sites I'd steer well clear of anyone who gets urgent about meeting immediately.

Harrison Scott avatar
Joined: Apr 2024 Messages: 1135
#5

For free online friendship sites specifically, how the app ranks free accounts matters more than the feature list does. Where free online friendship sites tends to come apart is when the match count looks healthy but nobody answers.

Harrison Porter avatar
Joined: Jun 2021 Messages: 1333
#6

If I'm being straight with you, with free online friendship sites I'd weight whether the inbox stays open without paying over anything the marketing page leads with. To be blunt about it on free online friendship sites, volume matters far less than whether people actually reply.

Hayes Murphy avatar
Joined: Nov 2020 Messages: 177
#7

If I'm being straight with you, with free online friendship sites I'd weight whether messaging is gated over anything the marketing page leads with. With free online friendship sites I'd steer well clear of inboxes that fill up the second you finish signing up. When I’m bored of the same paywalls, I’ll try a smaller option like Luvdate and keep my expectations realistic. Where free online friendship sites tends to come apart is when location matching gets loose once you leave a big city.

Ethan Price avatar
Joined: Sep 2023 Messages: 1549
#8

For trying a few options, I usually rotate through a small list like Datewander, ezhookups.online, Souldate and see which one has real activity in my area. With free online friendship sites I'd steer well clear of sites that hide the price until you're three clicks deep. Talking to a few people about this, with free online friendship sites I'd weight how the app ranks free accounts over anything the marketing page leads with. OkCupid, Hinge, Facebook Dating.

Chris James avatar
Joined: Aug 2019 Messages: 568
#9

Looking back on it, with free online friendship sites I'd weight how the algorithm treats new sign-ups over anything the marketing page leads with. If free online friendship sites is what you're weighing up, look for somewhere you can move at your own pace before you look at the price. If you want another place to compare vibes, I’ve seen people mention Flurrydate for a more lightweight experience. For free online friendship sites specifically, how much time you're willing to give it matters more than the feature list does.

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