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Alright, breaking this down from my own experience:
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Smaller, interest-specific platforms tend to have more engaged users even if the raw numbers are lower
Verification matters — avoid anything that lets totally anonymous accounts interact without any check
Profile quality is underrated. Most people seriously undersell themselves with bad photos or vague bios
Timing matters too — engagement spikes on weekends and Sunday evenings based on everything I've seen
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