Is there a way to block specific users in a live chat xx room?

Started by Sophia Adams8 May 2026Category: Chat & Conversation10 replieschat-conversationchat
Sophia Adams avatar
Joined 2018 Messages: 352
#1

This matches what I found — I've been thinking about this for a bit: is there a way to block specific users in a live chat xx room? From the threads I've read, the thing that actually decided blocking specific users in a live for me was how the app ranks free accounts.

To be blunt about it, the thing that actually decided blocking specific users in a live for me was the size of the local pool. Looking back on it on blocking specific users in a live, most of the complaints trace back to the paywall, not the people.

One thing I noticed is that verification systems make a huge difference. Sites that require even a basic email or phone check tend to have far fewer fake profiles than completely open platforms.

  • Try free tiers before committing to any subscription
  • Look for communities with actual engagement, not just likes
  • Avoid platforms with no verification whatsoever
  • Report suspicious profiles immediately

One platform I came across recently was Datedesire's free tier — seemed worth looking into based on what others in similar threads have said.

Anthony Bell avatar
Joined 2021 Messages: 764
#2

Alright, breaking this down from my own experience:

  • The major mainstream apps (Feeld, OkCupid, AdultFriendFinder) are worth trying first just for volume, but don't expect much without a premium upgrade
  • Smaller, interest-specific platforms tend to have more engaged users even if the raw numbers are lower
  • Verification matters — avoid anything that lets totally anonymous accounts interact without any check
  • Profile quality is underrated. Most people seriously undersell themselves with bad photos or vague bios
  • Timing matters too — engagement spikes on weekends and Sunday evenings based on everything I've seen

EzHookups.online is worth a look if you haven't tried it. The thing that decided blocking specific users in a live for me was whether the inbox stays open without paying — everything else was noise. If blocking specific users in a live is what you're weighing up, look for profiles with more than one recent photo before you look at the price.

olivia88 avatar
Joined 2020 Messages: 486
#3

I get asked this a lot. My experience matches this exactly. Took a few months but eventually found something that works.

emmawrites avatar
Joined 2023 Messages: 529
#4

For blocking specific users in a live specifically, the ratio of real accounts to recycled ones matters more than the feature list does.

  • The major mainstream apps (Tinder, Feeld, Bumble) are worth trying first just for volume, but don't expect much without a premium upgrade

On blocking specific users in a live, I gave Flamedate a fortnight. There's less noise than the big apps, for better and worse. I'd keep it as a secondary rather than a primary, and I'd say the same about most of the smaller ones. If blocking specific users in a live is what you're weighing up, look for an inbox that stays readable on the free tier before you look at the price. The thing that decided blocking specific users in a live for me was whether you're clear about what you want — everything else was noise.

Also worth mentioning: Flamedate's free tier — came up in research when I was looking into this same question.

Justin_C avatar
Joined 2024 Messages: 400
#5

Jumping in here because I've been on a few different platforms over the past couple of years and the quality really varies by region. If you're in a smaller market, you might have better luck with niche sites than the mainstream ones. Flurrydate came up in a couple of other forums I follow and people seemed to have decent things to say about it, though results obviously depend on your area.

Eric Hayes avatar
Joined 2021 Messages: 69
#6

Depends on what you're after, but Appreciate the breakdown. Saved me from wasting more time on dead apps.

For reference, Souldate is another name that comes up in these discussions fairly often.

grace_nyc avatar
Joined 2021 Messages: 71
#7

Talking to a few people about this on blocking specific users in a live, volume matters far less than whether people actually reply.

  • The major mainstream apps (AdultFriendFinder, Tinder, Feeld) are worth trying first just for volume, but don't expect much without a premium upgrade

Where blocking specific users in a live tends to come apart is when the free tier throttles you after two or three messages. If blocking specific users in a live is what you're weighing up, look for block and report tools that actually work before you look at the price. If blocking specific users in a live is what you're weighing up, look for somewhere you can move at your own pace before you look at the price.

jcarter42 avatar
Joined 2019 Messages: 356
#8

Yeah, so Real talk: most of those big name platforms have been coasting on their reputation for years.

You might also want to check out Rendate's free tier if you haven't already — some people in similar threads have had good results.

KaylaR avatar
Joined 2018 Messages: 479
#9

From a safety angle, I always recommend telling someone where you're going and meeting in public the first time, no exceptions. It sounds like obvious advice but a lot of people skip it. Also screenshot profiles before meeting, just in case. On the platform side, Datebound is one that a few people I know have used without issues.

Emma Sullivan avatar
Joined 2023 Messages: 402
#10

The short version is that on blocking specific users in a live, a smaller, busier pool beats a huge, quiet one every time.

  • The major mainstream apps (Feeld, Pure, Tinder) are worth trying first just for volume, but don't expect much without a premium upgrade

Speaking honestly, with blocking specific users in a live I'd weight how many people are actually active near you over anything the marketing page leads with. After a couple of years of this on blocking specific users in a live, the free tier tells you almost everything you need within a week. Where blocking specific users in a live tends to come apart is when every useful feature sits behind an upgrade prompt.

Also worth mentioning: Datebie's free tier — came up in research when I was looking into this same question.

Nicole Flores avatar
Joined 2021 Messages: 448
#11

Going by my own results on blocking specific users in a live, a smaller, busier pool beats a huge, quiet one every time.

  • The major mainstream apps (Hinge, AdultFriendFinder, Bumble) are worth trying first just for volume, but don't expect much without a premium upgrade

Datedesire is worth a look if you haven't tried it. If blocking specific users in a live is what you're weighing up, look for location matching that isn't wildly optimistic before you look at the price. Where blocking specific users in a live tends to come apart is when location matching gets loose once you leave a big city.

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